f you’re ready to dive headfirst into your rich girl era, or better yet, your rich woman era… look no further. Let me guide you out of the darkness of financial uncertainty and into the light of financial abundance.

And no, I won’t be discussing a side hustle, tech job, sugar daddy, or whatever else you may be thinking. << these things will absolutely help. But… in this post we are focusing on the most important element that must exist to sustain you even in the event of unforeseen financial storms. This element is your mindset. 

You probably hear it all the time, but your mind is the most powerful thing you possess. Use it carefully and wisely. But before we dive into shifting your mindset, I want to discuss how having faith plays a role in this art as well. I really don’t care if you’re religious or not, I’m a Christian and I prefer to speak from this perspective. Apply whatever works for you, Dear. 

In the context of stepping into your rich woman era, faith is not just about religious beliefs; it’s about having unwavering confidence in your ability to manifest the life you desire. Hebrews 11:1 tells us that faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. It’s the anchor that keeps you steady when financial waves get rough. 

In this post, we will intertwine the threads of faith and mindset which ultimately drive action and mold your reality.

Whether you attribute this phenomenon to divine intervention or the laws of attraction, having faith is about trusting the process, embracing the challenges and accepting them as setups for success. 

Rich Girl Era Rule #1: In all that you have and in all that you do, be grateful. 

The cornerstone for cultivating an abundance mindset to be grateful for your current circumstances. Here’s what this looks like in action:

You’ve created a positive energy magnet. That’s how gratitude works; when you can appreciate and acknowledge the good in your life, you attract more positivity, creating a self-reinforcing cycle of abundance. 

Stress reduction. It goes without saying that you will experience less stress when you are grateful and not always worried about your finances. Constantly worrying about money and complaining about money will only cause more stress and keep you from attracting the lifestyle you desire. 

When you get into the habit of being grateful at all times, your mindset automatically shifts from scarcity to abundance. You would have trained your mind to see abundance all around you, opening the door to new opportunities. 

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Rule # 2: Write down your vision and be very specific about what you desire, setting clear timelines and the reasons that drive your aspirations.

This is such a game changer. When you write things down, it helps you to visualize and affirm what’s in your head. Because let’s be real, sometimes our dreams and ideas never see the light of day and eventually just die.

And when it comes to financial abundance this is extremely important. Be very specific when you write down your financial goals and give yourself a reasonable timeline for when you want to achieve them.

If you’re serious and work well under pressure, make it interesting. Write down the dollar amount you want to see in your account, when you want to see it, and what you plan to do with it. You will notice a sense of urgency with the actions you take to achieve this goal. 

Rule #3: Behave as if you already have the lifestyle you desire. 

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Move like you already have it babe. This doesn’t mean start spending money irresponsibly. It means that you should start showing up as the financially secure woman that you are destined to be.

Imagine that woman for a second. How does she look? What time does she wake up? Is she physically fit? Who are her friends? How does she smell and what does she do for a living? Think about those things and begin to embody her. Adopt her habits and watch how life changes for you. 

Rule #4: Be a little delusional but extremely honest with yourself.

It might seem like an oxymoron but hear me out. Being a little delusional always helps because it’s ultimately pushing you to take the steps to make your financial goals a reality.

Being delusional is taking the previous step to the next level. It’s taking, acting as you are already financially stable to the next step. This is when you log into zillow and start looking at the home you want to purchase, or going to the dealership and test driving the car you want.

Or maybe you’re just interested in upgrading your wardrobe or investing thousands of dollars in your stocks of choice. Doing these things puts an extra spark under your butt to get your shit in order. 

But… never take the delusion too far. Be extremely honest with where you are currently with your finances. Do not spend what you don’t have and don’t make decisions that your future self will definitely hate you for. Trust me, it’s not a good feeling.

Set your future self up by planning ahead and working towards the life you desire and the life she deserves. 

Rich Girl Era: Final Thoughts

Your mindset is the true architect of your reality. As you navigate your Rich Girl Era, remember that every thought, belief, and action is shaping the masterpiece that is your life.

It was created perfectly by Him and it’s up to you to maintain its beauty. Cultivating a mindset of gratitude, faith and proactive behavior not only transforms your financial wellbeing, but it becomes the catalyst to your dream lifestyle.

Realize that a wealthy life is not just a destination- it’s a way of being. 


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