Dating in your 30s: The Ultimate Guide to Relationships as a Millennial Woman
Dating in your 30s is like opening a box of damaged goods hoping to find a rare gem that has been carefully repaired and has a fascinating backstory. You’ve reached the age where things start to become more apparent. You begin to notice the unhealed trauma within...
30 Unmarried and Childless Part 6 – Dating a Man with Kids: [5] Tips You Need to Know
Before I let you in on the 5 tips you need to know about dating a man with kids, let me hop up on my soap box real quick. Just don’t, okay? If you are a Gen Z woman without children, save yourself the mental anguish and hold out. Now, if you’re a millennial woman like...
30, Unmarried & Childless Part 5 – (Red Flags You Should Never Ignore)
This journey of being over 30, unmarried and childless is honestly quite ghetto. Luckily, I’ve been able to quickly identify red flags you should never ignore in a relationship. After 30, if marriage and having a family is what you want, wasting time in relationships...
Part Four – 4 Fundamental Aspects of Dating for Marriage
30, unmarried and childless was NOT supposed to be a series. BUT, here we are - now, 30 something, unmarried and childless. No big deal though - right? The Nerd Bae was conceived on a night where I was crying hysterically because another relationship was - coming to...
Top 10 Questions from Millennial Women to Men
I think most millennial women could agree that modern men are more complex when it comes to relationships than we like to think. Whether you're single, in a promising relationship or married, I think it's safe to say that Black millennial women and modern men have a...
What Millennial Women Want to Know – Can You Have it All?
Unless you’re a Black woman living under a rock, you should have heard of the Godfather, Kevin Samuels by now. If not, he’s an image consultant who recently broke the internet after calling my good chocolate sis, "average at best “. A lot of women were outraged at his...
How to Find Balance in Your Career and Love Life
Don’t forget your love life being busy at your workI feel like we have all been there at one point or another. The place in adulthood where we can’t find enough time in the week to make a living and spend quality time with our loved one. I think many Black millennial...
Part 3. 9-1-2020
This journey through dating has been interesting to say the least. I’ve been told that being single after 30 and without children makes me somewhat of a unicorn. And no… I’m absolutely not the type of unicorn who is ready and willing to act as an accessory to...
Top 3 Reasons Why We Settle in Relationships
There’s a little insecurity in all of us. And with insecurity comes the need to settle. I've watched my friends closely to try to make sense of it and this is what I've come up with. We settle in relationships because it's just not worth the headache to go through the...
30, Unmarried, Childless Pt 2. How to Date Responsibly
Here we go again. Complicating situations that are easier to maneuver than we think. Easier in theory. Self-accountability is never easy. Are you in the dating game feeling like you’re spinning your wheels? Feel like giving up and joining a nun commune? Don’t give up...